Seeing with the eyes is what got us in eating the wrong fruit. There are things you can discern naturally, but not all natural things are what they appear. The natural must be in submission to the Spirit. Male before Female, not female before male, that is what Got us into this mess. A balanced man is hard to find, but I saw one when he met me at the cross (or tree if you like) He was the last Adam, way different from the first, but none the less Adam. He made THEM male and female, one being Adam, all mankind. MAN!!

The one I met didn't need a wife to complete Him he was already married.